By Mary Anna Violi | @Mary Anna Violi
Today I suddenly realized this is the first Easter Sunday I have not shared with my daughter. For the past twenty-one years we have attended Easter Sunday Mass together, followed by a sumptuous dinner with family. The good news is that this Easter, Anjelica is commemorating Easter with her uncle, aunt, and cousins. My brother lives only 75 miles from the Big 12 college campus, while our own home clocks in four hours north. 75 miles to my brother’s sounded far more appealing, particularly since Easter is early this year, on March 31.
The other reason is that I lacked the wherewithal to go out-of-town a fifth weekend in a row. Frankly, I am weary. My darling daughter and my dear nephew will graduate with their undergraduate degrees in May. In June, my sweet niece will marry. Before my soon-to-be college graduate graduates, there is Mom’s Weekend at her sorority house in April. These three milestones all are far south from this Italian American’s residence in the Heartland. Ergo, I opted to relinquish travel over Easter weekend.
This does not equate with me sadly ingesting a frozen Lean Cuisine Easter dinner. Far from it. I will be joining my sprightly local uncle and lively cousins for an Italian Pasqua dinner. After dining with my family, a close friend who happens to be a nun, and I will be celebrating Easter, too. I am grateful for my family and friends, yet I yearn for my daughter to join in these Easter festivities.
Today I went to a local Italian bakery, purchased Easter bread, an Italian lamb cake, and wished I could transport these traditional delicacies to my daughter. How she loves the roasted leg of lamb and potatoes that I make, the asparagus, salad, Easter bread and lamb cake! To assuage my conscience, I have placed some of the lamb cake in the freezer, along with pink sugar-sprinkled bunny cutout cookies, and Easter bread. I will take these to her on Mom’s Weekend, for the Italian mama in me cannot bear to have her denied some of her favorite Easter delights. After all, liturgically speaking, Easter season continues through May 12 this year. J
Ciao for now.